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‘Fat’ by Raymond Carver

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It’s Christmas again and a time when too much is eaten; an apt moment maybe to read Fat’ by Raymond Carver. This is a story about an individual who enters a restaurant to have some food. The protagonist of this story works as a waitress, she recounts to her colleague what happened the previous night. From this unnamed women’s point of view, she tells how an oversized man enters and eats at ‘her station’. This individual indulges. It is obvious that the customer is self-conscious about his size, and how people see him. The waitress is kind and very polite to him, but there is an underlying fascination. Carver’s story highlights how some people have a readiness to look at people with perceived flaws as a way of making themselves feel better but also how others can see the real person and empathise. Sadly, this is not seen in the waitress’s partner.

“He is the fattest man she had ever seen”, initially the waitress seems to be mocking the customer already. People’s first impressions are often rude. However, she contrasts this immediately with positive factors of his neat appearance and how well he is dressed. The customer is already labelled like many in society because of their weight even if they are respectable people. The customer in the story comes through the restaurant door and sits at a table. He is being watched all the way to his seat while as he sits at the table minute details are noticed with his fingers: “three times the size of a normal person’s”. The reader envisages the waitress has never seen a large person before. Would she do this to any other person or does his fatness embrace her curiosity? ‘Good evening’, she says, he replies courteously enough with a “little puffing sound every so often“. The reader recognises that she is still figuring this man out despite the fact it may be indicative of his weight. Despite the now obvious acknowledgment of the man’s weight, the waitress still recounts her story to her colleague with “Rita, he was big, I mean real big’.

The staff in the restaurant also notice the customer. The reader would think one person crudely judging this person on their weight is enough but other people do not mind pitching in. Margo, the other waitress comments ‘who is your fat friend? He really is fatty’ to the unnamed waitress. It must be intimidating for this man; he walks through the restaurant door and all these prying eyes are on him with offensive comments to follow.

Serving the man, the waitress knocks over a glass of water on top of the proclaimed ‘fat’ man. Does this mean the waitress is thinking too much of his weight rather than get getting on with her job? The man shows refined politeness, ‘it’s alright’ and ‘don’t worry’. It is strange how she changes when she realises he is a polite man. She becomes mesmerized by his gracious manner toward her. ‘Your’e very kind’, he says as the waitress returns a ‘thank you’. Throughout serving, the waitress is the only one who shows patience and kindness to the customer even though she knows that he is eating too much food. She allies with him when a colleague exclaims ‘God, he’s fat!’, the waitress retorts ‘he can’t help it’. She is kind to him, talking to him and also explaining the size of the servings. Unfortunately, the customer seems to have no real control over the amount of food he eats. ‘Enjoy your dinner’, she says even though the restaurant is emptying out. ‘We’re not making you late’, he says.  The reader wonders why he keeps using the word ‘we’ even though he is on his own. Is it he is thinking he is eating for two? Is he lonely? However, the waitress realises he is a nice man and is as courteous to him as he is to her. There is an obvious contrast with the party of four ‘demanding’ businessmen and the ‘odd’ couple the waitress has to deal with.

In further contrast in manners, Rudy, the narrator’s partner, finishes work and wants to go home. He has got his hat and apron off. The reader would think he should respect the customer as much as his partner. The waitress has to express ‘Rudy, he is fat, I say, but that is not the whole story’. “You sweet on fat stuff “he says. Rudy seems to lack his own self-control and has a laugh at the thought of her liking him. This rudeness from her partner, the waitress ignores and proceeds to serve the man desert with a smile. Is she finding her customer more appealing than her demanding and insensitive boyfriend? Why should she not seek good manners and be treated appropriately? The customer finishes and leaves the waitress and Rudy go home.

At home making Rudy some tea, the waitress holds her stomach and thinks about what it would be like to have children as obese as the man in the restaurant. Rudy treats her as another waitress. She puts everything onto a tray to bring to him. He sits down and watches TV as she works in the kitchen. Is this a controlling relationship? Rudy insensitively divulges a story of two overweight boys he knew naming one as ‘Fat’ and the other ‘Wobbly’. Rudy seems to be a very ill-mannerned man and his story must leave her questioning him. This lack of restraint has no bounds as they go to bed. The waitress expresses ‘I turn on my back and relax some, though it is against my will”. Her action in this scene prove how she may not have total control of the situation that she is in. “When he gets on me, I suddenly feel I am fat. I feel I am terrifically fat, so fat that Rudy is a tiny thing and hardly there at all”, the boyfriend rapes her. How did she ever tolerate him? She feels fat, demeaned, while the partner hardly even seems present.

Carver tackles a major issue in our modern society which should be remembered and applied in our daily lives. Carver teaches us not to judge upon our first thoughts. Carver uses the story as a way of objectifying what happens. The story shows temptation, judgment, and control. The customer intrigues the waitress and her final words ‘my life is going to change, I feel it’ shows an epiphany.  The waitress is a kind soul who did not seem disgusted by the customer. This compassion afflicts her once she arrives home. Her partner does not share this. The reader hopes her epiphany comes true.

Will You Please Be Quiet, Please? (Vintage Classics)

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‘Too Fat To Fly!’ or ‘Too Fat To Fly?’

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Situation: Oversized man, Kevin Smith, thrown off a flight for infringing on another seat.

Question: How would you have handled this situation if you were the Southwest Airline director?

Firstly let’s look at the facts that Mr. Smith originally purchased two tickets for two seats next to each other, so he was aware of the policy with regard to oversized people. He was known to purchase two seats as he had done before with the same airline. He decided to fly standby on an earlier flight. The earlier flight had only one seat. He was seated on the earlier flight before ground staff asked him to leave. He flew back on his later flight.

If I were the director, my initial thoughts would be to look at both sides of the story. It is not a very nice experience to be taken off any flight but the passenger should be aware of all the evidence in this case. There seems to be a bit of confusion as to whether the passenger mentioned to ground staff on the earlier flight that he usually bought two seats and that he had changed to standby thereby moving his flight to an earlier time. He also boarded the plane aware that he had just one ticket. There are also factors involving the ground staff who should have been aware that his size may have created problems. They should have highlighted that the airline will refuse to transport or remove at any point any passenger where the safety and comfort of other passengers is compromised and who is also unable to sit in the seat with the seat belt fastened and the armrest down. Also, the ticket issuer should have noticed his size and made him aware of the airline policy before issuing his earlier flight.

I refer back again to the passenger’s previous flight where he bought two seats. This complies with Southwest airline policy. He must have known that when changing his flight that there was a very high potential that being a standby flight there would only be a few seats spare. He must have known that there was a fair chance that he would not be able to purchase two seats next to each other on a flight that was fully booked. As with any waiting standby passenger, the airline does not really know how many spare seats there will be until the last call for passengers is made at the boarding dock. Mr. Smith must have been aware of this as he waited for his standby flight. Southwest also airlines wonders why he never mentioned in the whole time until he sat in his seat on the flight that he needed two seats and this was how he usually flew on Southwest.

As an airline, we also should share a little of the responsibility as staff should be aware of the company’s clear policy on overweight people. Any passenger who is overweight should be highlighted to the fact that if he or she goes onto the plane and due to their size this person encroaches on the adjacent seat they will be removed from the aircraft. This is the airline’s policy is clear and every individual no matter who they are must follow these rules.

In this situation, the company was right to remove this man and due to the fact he was already booked on a later flight with two seats his travel plans were not harmed.  It is a shame this man has used his notoriety to criticize our company but Southwest airline’s seating policy is clear. Southwest airlines need to think of all the passengers being safe and comfortable. Hopefully, this situation has highlighted the company’s policy and made all members of staff aware of the policy and problems that can arise from having to remove people from any aircraft.

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